Fifteen Assumptions That Might Be Useful To Make

7 Mar

1. Assume that you are loved.

2. Assume that those who love you find some kind of value in you and the things you do.

3. Assume, however, that you don’t need to be valuable in order to be worthy of love.

4. Assume that there is no one out there keeping a tally of all of your failings, ready to throw it in your face when you’re either feeling too good or too awful about yourself.

5. Assume that if anyone actually is keeping a tally of all your failings, that act says more about them than it does about you.

6. Assume that you can’t make all of the people happy all of the time; maybe not even some of the people some of the time.

7. Assume that you will, over the course of your life, sometimes anger or disappoint the people you love.

8. Assume that when this happens, it isn’t the end of the world, even if that’s what it feels like.

9. Assume that there is never an end to learning, or growing, or discovering.

10. Assume that you will always find a way out, even when all the doors slam shut and everything feels impossible.

11. Assume that sometimes earnestness and optimism can trump irony and cynicism.

12. Assume that it’s possible to recapture the way you felt when you were young, how the perfect clockwork mechanism of the universe used to leave you breathless and giddy with wonder.

13. Assume that there will always be more stories to tell, or at the very least new ways of reinterpreting old fables.

14. Assume that nothing is permanent, that someday even the sun will disappear; remember that everything we see and touch and taste is made of stars that grew and pulsed and died long before this planet ever existed.

15. Assume that you are under some kind of obligation to make the world a better place.

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261 Responses to “Fifteen Assumptions That Might Be Useful To Make”

  1. Brock's avatar
    BrockOT March 10, 2013 at 3:55 am #

    Reblogged this on MH4OT Blog and commented:
    Was thinking about NLP and living by “truths” and came across this list of 15 Assumptions to live by. No whether they are actually True or not is irelevent….if you believe them to be true then they will shape your life in that fashion. The power of positive thinking 🙂

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    Abdul in New Zealand March 10, 2013 at 5:18 am #

    nice post , well said 🙂

  3. emotionalsalad's avatar
    emotionalsalad March 10, 2013 at 5:35 am #

    Such a beautiful post !!!

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    ejims05 March 10, 2013 at 5:55 am #

    I will try them out. Thanks for sharing.

  5. princewillejims's avatar
    ejims05 March 10, 2013 at 6:01 am #

    Very interesting assumptions, i will try to apply them to real life situations. Thanks for sharing!

  6. Chi.Hoang's avatar
    Chi.Hoang March 10, 2013 at 6:04 am #

    this is so inspirational! made my day :xxxx

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    Peaches March 10, 2013 at 6:09 am #

    I need to print this off and keep it with me.

  8. RituKT's avatar
    Ritu KT March 10, 2013 at 6:57 am #

    Perfectly put! If we keep these fifteen things in our mind, I doubt we’ll ever fall into the trap of negativity and sadness. And in order to keep it as a reminder for myself and my readers (who might have missed reading this), I’m going to reblog this post.
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    Have a nice day!

  9. confessions-of-a-nomad's avatar
    confessions-of-a-nomad March 10, 2013 at 6:58 am #

    Love all these points, thanks for sharing!

  10. RituKT's avatar
    Ritu KT March 10, 2013 at 6:59 am #

    Reblogged this on Beyond Beauty Tips and commented:
    If you assume things in life, keep the following fifteen on the top.

    Thank you visiting my blog and have a great day!

  11. Amira's avatar
    amira March 10, 2013 at 7:55 am #

    that’s a great list of assumptions that we should live by. thanks.
    definitely we will be happier if follow all those assumption – it will cut back on our expectations.

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    kranthiboda March 10, 2013 at 8:08 am #

    Reblogged this on kranthiboda's Blog.

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    yepiratehere March 10, 2013 at 9:52 am #

    STUNNING- THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

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    lakeliveslife March 10, 2013 at 11:10 am #

    Reblogged this on lakeliveslife.

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    only1katieb March 10, 2013 at 11:19 am #

    Great read, well said, thanks 🙂 Katie B @ Minerva Collection – UK Handbags & Jewellery

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    shesgotninelives March 10, 2013 at 2:44 pm #

    Reblogged this on shesgotninelives.

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    Byron Jorjorian March 10, 2013 at 2:51 pm #

    Beautiful!

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    Mountainstroh (Tony) March 10, 2013 at 3:42 pm #

    Excellent choice of photos to go with this! Shared the post on Facebook

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    bbanublog March 10, 2013 at 3:47 pm #

    liked it very much! Though it all starts with the word “assume” sometimes (assuming) things is a mind setter against making false assumptions about us and living out reality when it strikes the most in our faces not to let us down and out completely. Thank you for writing this and feel good to share it

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    2bxtchesdeep March 10, 2013 at 3:52 pm #

    Reblogged this on 2bxtchesdeep's Blog.

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    amiraidayu04 March 10, 2013 at 4:01 pm #

    Reblogged this on Amira Idayu and commented:
    The assumptions just fit me well haa

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    amiraidayu04 March 10, 2013 at 4:04 pm #

    Reblogged this on Amira Idayu.

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    hrygth March 10, 2013 at 5:01 pm #

    This is a lovely blog. I was moved. Thank you.

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    Creative Tidal Wave March 10, 2013 at 5:12 pm #

    Reblogged this on creativetidalwave and commented:
    A very good philosophy to assume.

  25. Maria Danuco's avatar
    cheshire93 March 10, 2013 at 5:38 pm #

    Reblogged this on Cheshire Abroad and commented:
    How about a nice dose of positive thinking to help you cope with the fact that tomorrow is Monday?

  26. Steve Lakey's avatar
    Steve Lakey March 10, 2013 at 5:42 pm #

    They say “Never assume”. I think you’ve just proved them wrong! Excellent post. 🙂

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    5thingstodotoday March 10, 2013 at 5:55 pm #

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  28. swisssam's avatar
    swisssam March 10, 2013 at 6:01 pm #

    love it

  29. magicarpediem's avatar
    magicarpediem March 10, 2013 at 6:45 pm #

    Inspirational.

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    drbrettwade March 10, 2013 at 6:54 pm #

    Very informative post.
    Thank you for writing this!
    Dr. Brett

  31. Sigrid Mjelva's avatar
    Freeskipow March 10, 2013 at 8:03 pm #

    Very inspiring!

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    hiddenintheshadow March 10, 2013 at 9:37 pm #

    Reblogged this on hiddenintheshadow's Blog.

  33. Ippo's avatar
    Ippo March 10, 2013 at 9:38 pm #

    In general we must assume that we cannot assume anything…

  34. raashiullal's avatar
    raashiullal March 10, 2013 at 9:51 pm #

    It is a nice post, I especially liked 15. Assume that you are under some kind of obligation to make the world a better place.
    🙂

  35. MissAdventures's avatar
    missadventure77 March 10, 2013 at 10:14 pm #

    Love this!

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      RagDollsRising March 11, 2013 at 2:26 pm #

      This is great, I agree with everything up to “everything we see was created by the stars….” what about the creator?”

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    beckiesheldon March 11, 2013 at 2:28 am #

    Reblogged this on Good stories aren't when a dog bites a man, it is when a man bites a dog. and commented:
    I love this. It’s beautiful.

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    Ellie Kuykendall March 11, 2013 at 4:43 am #

    Love this and just shared it on Facebook!

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    Lateral Love Australia March 11, 2013 at 5:35 am #

    Reblogged this on Lateral Love Australia.

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    Con Georgiou March 11, 2013 at 6:54 am #

    Very nice, I just printed it out and put it on my wall. Namaste.

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    vdiggz March 11, 2013 at 7:22 am #

    this was GREAT! there has to be more positive things thought to combat all the negative we live in! 🙂

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    thinkingoverload March 11, 2013 at 7:28 am #

    Reblogged this on Thinkingoverload.

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    Mohamed Ossama March 11, 2013 at 8:33 am #

    Reblogged this on Dawn of Thoughts.

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    Storm March 11, 2013 at 8:46 am #

    Beautiful…..

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